How would you read this statement my husband syas he love he doset want to loose the kida and i but if he?

He runs down every thing about me even the plans i make from the park to church tells me he can do whatever he wants when he wants even screw women if he wanted to and when he decides to he he will. I got upset really hurt my felling started crying so he states hitting and punching telling me i am stupid. What is wrong with this guy. To avoid hearing his commoners about church or anything else i have asks him to go do his own thing and leave me and the kids to our things. He starts yelling no why should he continue to be in our lives when we are not in his